I have come to view the world like a box of crayons, full of colors instead of just a black and white crayon.
I was raised to believe that every decision was simple; yes/no, right/wrong, black/white, following rules set by religion.
I do not believe this any more. Making a moral decision any more, is based on treating people with kindness, being happy, making decisions that do not harm others. For example, it is more important that I spend time with my family than serving in a church calling where I am not with my family.
I have made some important life decisions lately that make me very happy. Yet, I am not able to share these decisions with my family. Why? Because my family will not be happy for me. If these decisions make me happy, then why won't my family be happy for me? Because my family makes decisions based on an absolute moral judgement of black/white and right/wrong. They will judge me, criticize me, condemn me.