Don't Believe Everything
you hear about
Don't believe everything you hear about apostates, odds are, it probably isn't true.
When my boyfriend and I were dating, we did the dorkiest things, we would go to the Deseret Book store and look at the apologist books. After awhile, we noticed that all of them seemed to have a common theme, they seemed to be plagued with anti-apostate literature. The workers didn't have a response, and I wondered, 'if they were comfortable with their doctrines, wouldn't they just leave us alone? Maybe they should follow the counsel of the 5th Chapter of Acts., Gamaliel told the Jews that were preoccupied with proving them wrong to “let them alone: for this counsel or this work be of men, it will come to nought: But if it be of God, ye cannot overthrow it; lest haply ye be found even to fight against God.” (Acts 5:41)
The things I found in those books weren't fair and they definitely weren't accurate. They took things out of context and misquoted things from us apostates.
So here's the thing... a bunch of good hearted people go to the Mormon bookstores or innocently attend the Mormon church and BOOM! They hit them with a bunch of stuff that makes us apostates look like a bunch of freaks. Remember, just because a guy publishes a blog doesn't make him an expert on Apostates! Remember, he's bashing people who have sincerely researched and studied out and come to a thoughtful conclusion that should be respected. He's too busy with the rigor of his self absorption to realize he is tearing down the apostates for their beliefs.
Even if you never join the apostates, just don't believe everything you hear about them. Keep an open mind, and find out for yourself. Invite one over for dinner and ask them why they believe what they believe. It won't hurt you to ask them, they aren't contagious after all. Even if you decide to not become an apostate, it won't hurt you to be friends with them, there's no need to declare a theological war on them. Even Christ said in Luke 9:50 that
You shouldn't become an apostate just because it's a cool thing to do or because Amy Adams or Aaron Eckhart are famous exmormons. Don't just believe in being an apostate because your Mom and Dad says you should, yes, these are great reasons, but you need to study it out in your mind when you get a stupid of thought that means you have stumbled into apologetics and you need to leave as quickly as you can.
You are not an apostate just because
you like Amy Adam's tits
Do you remember when Carl Sagan made one of the most incredible statements in human history? "Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence." Remember that Carl Sagan is telling us that the only way to get to truth is through studying and seeking knowledge.
So, if you're not an apostate, don't believe what you are told about apostates. People err because they blindly follow without studying it out for themselves.