I was raised in a church where, at the age of 12 and every year after that until we were married, we were pulled into a room, alone, with a middle-age man who asked very personal, invasive, private and even voyeuristic questions. These questions, if asked by a stranger on the street (and these men were often strangers to us) would be considered sexual harassment. If these questions were asked by a teacher at school, the teacher would likely be suspended from their job.
*Have you ever allowed a boy to touch your breasts?
*Have you ever allowed a boy to touch your vagina?
*Have you ever allowed a boy to touch your breasts on top of your clothes?
*Have you ever allowed a boy to touch you between your legs on top of your clothes?
*Have you ever french kissed?
*Have you ever masturbated?
*Have you ever allowed a boy to penetrate you?
*With his fingers?
*With his penis?
*Have you ever had anal sex?
*Have you ever had oral sex? Have you done it on your partner or been the recipient?
These are all questions I have been asked or my children have been asked.
There are other ways the church has assisted in breaking down boundaries. It allows the visiting teachers to ask its members personal questions about their family life, their marriages and their children. They allow the home teachers to ask personal questions about their church attendance, weather they are reading the scriptures, having prayer, doing their church callings properly, etc. These are all a violation of privacy and personal automony.
Then there are the tithing settlement and the temple recommend interviews each year. In other christian churches, making tithing donations is anonymous and how much is paid is between the individual person and their god. In the mormon church, they are held accountable to the bishop yearly. If they are not paying 10% of their income, they are not allowed to enter the temple, and it is only by their doctrine, if you do not enter the temple, you cannot make it to the mormon heaven. You are also asked by the bishop about your underwear, if you wear the mormon underwear both day and night and having sex with only your spouse.
There are no boundaries in this church.