tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824132140476033575.post983973838425157386..comments2023-03-18T09:03:01.146-06:00Comments on Family Blog: Push-me Pull-youUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824132140476033575.post-60784030810812054542011-10-09T21:00:50.497-06:002011-10-09T21:00:50.497-06:00Married Dude,
Have you tried counseling? Will she ...Married Dude,<br />Have you tried counseling? Will she go? If a marriage can be saved, it should...my experience tells me, however, that the one who needs the help is the one who is resistant to acknowledging and receiving help. I feel for you; this does cause so much damage. I hope you can find peace.Alecia Harrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11068463753323404149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6824132140476033575.post-76934061609947588102011-10-06T11:22:26.621-06:002011-10-06T11:22:26.621-06:00I can totally relate to this.
My wife and I have ...I can totally relate to this.<br /><br />My wife and I have been having difficulty since day one. Married 13 years, separated for almost two now. <br /><br />Her father was a raging alcoholic, and died drinking at 58. Her parents divorced when she was 14 or 15, and the whole family maintains that her dad was "a good dad" and "never got angry". This was not the human being I experienced.<br /><br />The whole family seems to be addicted to drama, upset and conflict. <br /><br />As soon as my wife starts to feel close to me, she picks a fight, attacks my character, spirituality; anything she can find to coerce me into getting upset, then she convinces herself that we are "not meant to be". She has a fear of commitment, and therefore, controls the relationship by leaving everything "loose" and undefined.<br /><br />I have been to the courthouse to file for divorce, but I ran out of time and money for the fees, and have two beautiful kids. I see the damage that this has already done to them. I know divorce would devastate them.<br /><br />I feel your pain and frustration.marrieddudesaywhathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12180707021640120862noreply@blogger.com